The Choices We Face: Decisions Every Christian Must Make

The Choices We Face: Decisions Every Christian Must Make

As a long-time United Methodist pastor, I’ve witnessed countless moments where faith intersects with the complex realities of our world. Today, the choices we face as Christians in an ever-changing society affect all of us.

We live in a time of change and challenge. Our world is increasingly diverse, interconnected, and complex. But as Christians, we’re often called to make decisions that test our faith, challenge our understanding, and push us out of our comfort zones. These could be decisions about accepting people with different beliefs, advocating for social justice, or even re-evaluating our own beliefs in light of new information. There are choices to make.

The Choice of Inclusivity

Historically and today, one of the Church’s most pressing issues has been the call to be truly inclusive. It’s imperative to understand that Jesus’ table was open to everyone: tax collectors, sinners, and those marginalized by society.

Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” – Matthew 11:28.

But what does this mean in practice? It’s really quite simple: Christians are to welcome everyone, just as Jesus did.

Imagine a table where everyone is invited, regardless of reputation, beliefs, or societal standing. This is the kind of inclusivity Christians are called to practice. 

It means extending grace to those whose lifestyles or beliefs differ from your own. It means recognizing the image of God in every person, regardless of race, gender, political affiliation, sexual orientation, or social status.

Some will find inclusivity challenging. It has the regrettable potential to lead to conflict and labeling. But Jesus, when reminding the disciples of their high calling, said, “But not so with you” (Matthew 20:26). And not so for the Church that He called into existence. We are called to welcome all people to the table of fellowship.

The Choice of Social Justice

Another choice Christians face is how to engage with social justice issues. If there is any doubt, remember the words God spoke through the prophet Micah:

The Lord has told you what is good, and this is what He requires of you: To do what is right, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God” – Micah 6:8.

But what does this look like in a world of systemic inequality, political polarization, and environmental crisis?

Examples could be speaking out against injustice and advocating for policies that protect the vulnerable, even if they don’t benefit us. It could mean examining our privilege and biases and changing our long-held beliefs or behaviors.

Sometimes, our choices put us at odds with friends and family. But as Christians, we are to live out our faith authentically. Therefore, the intentional choice to do what is right, merciful, and with humility must be made.

The Choice of the Nature of Our Faith

The most difficult choices we face are deeply personal. How do we stay true to our faith as we navigate the tension between ancient wisdom and contemporary realities?

Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect” – 1 Peter 3:15.

This verse reminds us that our faith is both personal and expressive. It also challenges us to engage with others’ opinions and doubts in a spirit of love and humility. These choices further require us to constantly examine our beliefs and practices as Christians.

We may need to wrestle with difficult questions: How do we interpret Scripture in light of evolving social norms? How do we balance adherence to tradition with openness to new forms of worship and community? How do we maintain our faith in the face of personal hardships or global crises?

Such questioning isn’t a sign of weak faith but rather the mark of an alive and growing faith. Our faith deepens and matures through this process of questioning, studying, and prayerful reflection. We’re not to have blind acceptance, but instead, a faith that engages fully with the complexities of our world and our lives.

The Choice of Courage

These personal choices often require courage. It takes courage to question long-held beliefs, admit to God when wrong, and change your mind in light of new understanding. It takes courage to hold onto faith when doubt creeps in or to express our beliefs in environments that may be hostile to them.

But remember, we don’t come to these choices alone. We have the guidance of the Holy Spirit, the wisdom of Scripture, the support of our faith community, and the example of countless believers who have wrestled with their own difficult choices throughout history.

As we navigate these personal choices, let us do so with humility, recognizing that none of us has all the answers. May we approach our faith journey with openness to growth, always seeking a deeper understanding of God’s will.

As we face these times of choosing, let me challenge us to:

Embrace discomfort: Don’t shy away from difficult conversations or decisions. Lean into them as opportunities for growth and deeper understanding.

Practice radical empathy: Before judging others, try to understand their perspective. Remember Jesus’s command: “Do not judge, or you too will be judged” (Matthew 7:1).

Seek wisdom: Study Scripture, engage in prayer, and seek counsel from diverse voices. Trust that God will guide you if you approach these choices with an open heart and mind.

Act with love:  Whatever choices you make, let them be grounded in love – love for God and your neighbor.

We are on this journey together. As followers of Jesus, we must support each other by offering grace, understanding, and encouragement. Let this sense of community reassure you that you are not alone.

Let us trust in God’s goodness and grace as we navigate the complexities of modern Christian life. And let us strive to choose love, justice, and inclusivity, significantly when somebody attempts to complicate things.

Remember, your faith is a powerful guide in determining the decisions you make.